Most scammers have mastered their craft and look for vulnerability in their conquests. Understanding the importance of this is imperative for your safety. Be alert and guarded; do not trust someone too quickly. Once you pay close attention to the signs, it is easier to recognize fraudulent personalities.

Do not give out personal information to anyone online, especially if you have never met them! Do not give someone money, regardless of what sob story they are sharing with you. Sincere suitors will never ask you for money! They do not pressure you to invest in their business. They will not attempt to obtain money from you in any way.

Many scammers are love bombers!

Be wary of someone who moves too fast. Many women become emotionally attached when they are intimate with a potential partner too early. Scammers are very aware of this. This behaviour leads some women to overlook many red flags. It is so important to take the time to get to know someone before you jump into bed with them.

This also includes online intimacy! You don’t know where videos or photos will end up. This is dangerous behaviour, so please refrain from trusting someone in this manner.

If they tell you they love you quickly, this is a dead giveaway of a love bomber. Wanting to become exclusive right away is also a warning sign. They give you a false sense of security by keeping you emotionally and romantically invested. This often happens before they even meet you in person. This is a huge wake-up call that shouldn’t be ignored.

Con artists of this scale will tell you everything you want to hear.

Their online profile will be engaging and say all the right things. When meeting them in person or online, they will quickly win you over with their charm and non-stop attention. When they feel that you are invested, they will continue to pull at your heartstrings. They can be very persistent and convincing. (If you haven’t seen the movie Dirty John, I recommend that you do. *Here is the trailer)

These scammers are experienced charmers who can win over even some of the tougher challengers. The key is to recognize this form of manipulation early. Do not look at their possessiveness and assertiveness as positive traits. They want you to view it as confidence and make you believe they have a powerful attraction toward you. They understand the importance of gaining your trust as early as possible.

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Don’t spend months texting someone without meeting them.

When you feel a connection, it is advisable to meet them face-to-face before you become invested in them online. It is much easier for a scammer to hide behind a computer. Eyes are the windows to your soul, which gives a lot away when you are paying close attention. Body language is another big giveaway.

If they make continual excuses about why they can’t get together in person, they are not sincere. Be wary of long-distance connections due to this exact reason. A scammer knows how to romance you over the internet and via texting. Some will even avoid having video calls with you. They are experienced at holding your interest with the perfect texts, emails, or social media DMs.

Be very aware of someone who has all the attributes of what you’re looking for. They will say and do all the right things to make you believe in them. “When something is too good to be true, it usually is.” That is a popular cliché for a reason; don’t lose sight of that.

Be proactive: Do some online research about the person you’re interested in dating.

Reverse image search their photos to see if they’re legit. Scammers often steal photos from somewhere else. They also usually only have one or two photos on their dating profile. Some scam detector websites offer support. There are also apps where you can check to see if others have met the person you are dating. Scammers often date more than one person at the same time. These websites can be very helpful in situations like that.

When using online dating sites, do extensive research to find a trusted platform. The free sites attract more scammers. If they don’t have to provide credit card information or other identification requirements, it is not as easy to get caught. Some online sites can ask for a lot of information, which will also deter scammers.

Here is a list of a few dating sites, but please do your due diligence when making any decisions. Another option is to use an online dating site that does the searching and matching for you. This gives scammers less control.

Always listen to your gut instincts. This is a powerful tool not to ignore.

• If you sense something is off about a person you are talking with, do not continue the connection.
• When you are dating someone new, and they are secretive about many things, this is a big warning sign.
• They should include you in their life in all areas. This means visiting their home and spending time with their family and friends. They are not hiding you or hiding from anything, either.
• There is no possessive or controlling behaviour from them.
• Listen to your family and friends if they have any reservations about someone you are seeing. They will often see negative traits that you do not notice.

Be smart with who you let into your life. Be mindful of all red flags early on. This is the time when you should be most alert. Put the brakes on with how often you talk to them or see them in the early stages. This will allow you to have more clarity on how authentic they truly are. Falling fast for someone because they know how to professionally romance you is a scammer’s way to your heart. Don’t fall into their trap.

Thank you, Sybersue xo ❤️

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