I’ve been sexually active for 2 years with multiple partners-male and female. I’ve never been tested and it’s really bothering me. Is there a way I can be tested without my parents’ knowledge (they think I’m a virgin) or not since I’m still a minor?

First off, it’s great that you’re thinking about getting tested for sexually transmitted infections (STIs). This is a smart move to keep both you and your partner(s) safe.

One thing a lot of people worry about when it comes to sexual health is confidentiality. In the U.S., sexual health care is considered confidential, but the exact age when you can get care without a parent/guardian knowing depends on the state. Internationally, the laws can be different, too. When you make your appointment, be sure to ask if it will stay confidential, especially when it comes to using insurance.

Here’s where you can get tested for STIs:

Your doctor
Your school’s health center (if your school has one)
A local sexual health clinic (like Planned Parenthood)
An urgent care clinic

If you live in the U.S., the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has a website that helps you find testing sites near you. You can check it out at gettested.cdc.gov