So you’re in need of Valentine’s Day gifts for her, which means at some point you did something right. You followed our style guides, the hair was on point, you didn’t overdo it on the aftershave and you got yourself a girl. Huzza! But that doesn’t mean the hard work is over, not even close.

The relationship assault course is littered with the bodies of men who fell at this crucial hurdle by blindly feeling their way through a department store make-up counter. Fortunately, whether you’ve asked these 21 relationship questions or not, we’ve got your back with the best Valentine’s Day gifts that aren’t an expected boring box of chocolates.

Every woman is unique, but fortunately for those buying Valentine’s Day gifts for her, they share a few common traits. One, unsurprisingly, is that they like things that smell good (who doesn’t).

Save on the guesswork and snap up a classic fragrance like Marc Jacobs’ Daisy Love, an update on their best-selling Daisy perfume. Adorably packaged with an oversized daisy top, the bottle will look nice on her bathroom shelf while its fresh floral fragrance of daisy tree petals will work year-round.

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Her insatiable lust for light luggage creates the perfect window for you to earn some brownie points with a bag-shaped romantic gesture. Swedish brand Axel Arigato’s eye-catching minimalist leather tote bag stole the hearts of countless bloggers last year. Our pick is a simple yet sophisticated beige rectangular bag with detachable straps — guaranteed to hit all the right boxes.

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Spark her creative side with this inside look into the lives of the most iconic and influential creative directors by Kinfolk creator Nathan Williams. With over 90 influential profiles of figures in the fields of fashion, publishing, and entertainment, she’s sure to recognize industry stalwarts — and the bright red cover will add a spot of color to her decor regardless of how often she opens it.

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You don’t need to look outside to know it’s still properly winter in the northern hemisphere. However, as A-Listers and people with hangovers will attest to, sunglasses are so much more than a one-season accessory.

Aside from damaging UV rays being year-round, helping your other half get ahead of the game with these soft yet angular frames will save you from being dragged shopping come spring. And of course, nothing says “I love you” like the implication of a holiday…

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Given that it’s now completely normal for a mobile phone to set you back several months’ rent, it’s little wonder protecting it becomes priority number one — and what’s better protection than a mini puffer jacket.

Making waves among the hottest celebrities like Dua Lipa and Kendall Jenner, this case is soft yet protective and still fits perfectly in your pocket. Keep her best friend and loyal assistant warm and safe this winter and we’re sure she will buy a matching puffer. 

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To most men, nail polish may not seem like the most exciting Valentine’s Day gift for her in the world, but it’s usually an altogether different story for the fairer sex. This deep, dark shade of red practically has romance and passion written all over it. Lazy present? Yeah, probably. Will it work, though? Yeah, probably.

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Most women want salon-quality blowouts without the frequent salon prices. And sometimes you need a seriously tricked-out blow dryer to achieve that look. With all the ongoing advancements in technology, it seems that one needs a PhD in engineering to operate them.

But the Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer will have her gleefully reading the owner’s manual like the true woman in STEM she is while also looking absolutely fabulous. Plus, she’s probably seen this multi-use hairdryer all over social media, so kudos to you for paying attention (wink, wink). 

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Few things are as cuddle-inducing as taking your Valentine’s Day activities outside, but nothing kills the mood quite like frostbite. Plan ahead for a walk in the park by buying her this cashmere knit beanie, which will still be a sound investment next winter rolls around.

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While you yourself may not be particularly well-versed in the intricacies of makeup (or maybe you are, we don’t judge), the good people over at Benefit certainly are. So long as you steer clear of foundation or anything else that needs to be matched to her skin tone, you really can’t go far wrong here. If you’re still struggling to decide, we’d suggest this eyebrow pencil. An on-point choice, if we do say so.

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Whether or not she actually goes to the gym, she will need a pair of super comfy (and super sexy) leggings. They also feature the ultra-flattering high-waist cut that will make her feel unstoppable. The highly breathable material at LuluLemon will keep her feeling hot, not sweaty. Whether you hit the gym together or just the streets for a lazy Sunday brunch, this is a must for her wardrobe. 

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There’s no one that doesn’t benefit from an elegant watch as a gift on Valentine’s Day. No longer will calls for the shower to be vacated be met with cries of “sorry, I’ll be another 15 minutes yet, I didn’t realize the time,” and she’ll get a shiny and sleek new timepiece from Nomos Glashuette. Everyone’s a winner. Though it’s not a watch under $100, it’s pretty darn close.

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If you’ve heard the word “Tiffany’s” being muttered by your partner in recent weeks, there are some big expectations this Valentine’s Day. To swerve any sizeable bank dents, act the fool and buy this vintage movie poster of one of the most stylish films of all time: Breakfast At Tiffany’s. Phew.

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Roses on Valentine’s Day may be a bit of a cliché — okay, a lot of a cliché — but that doesn’t mean women don’t still want to receive them. Up the ante by opting for a heart-shaped box filled to the brim with a dozen roses of her favorite color. We promise the good folk at Venus Et Fleur will arrange them way better than you ever could using flowers from the garden that you hacked up with the kitchen scissors. Plus, they last for a year… Talk about a Valentine’s Day gift that keeps on giving. 

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Even the most hairy-arsed, beer-swilling, football-loving, wood-working man’s man should be able to recognize that this is one seriously nice set of earrings. And if you’re sold on them, imagine what your significant other will think. Just make sure she actually has her ears pierced before you go splashing your cash. Otherwise, you could be out of pocket and in for a rather awkward Valentine’s Day.

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Make this the year you swallow your fear and brave the lingerie section alone for a girlfriend gift. Just remember to give the customary nod and grimace of acknowledgment to any other lost souls you happen to make eye contact with (we’re all in the same boat, after all). Alternatively, you could save yourself the trauma and buy your (and by “your” we mean “her”) lingerie online.

Not quite as courageous though, is it? Regardless of your embarrassment meter, this pick can work equally well as a cozy pajama as it does lingerie, so there’ll be no “you bought me lingerie?!” complaints.

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Unless you’re utterly hopeless, you’ve probably picked up on the fact that many women have a certain fondness for footwear. And that platform sneakers are seriously in. If you’re not utterly hopeless, then you’ve probably already figured out that this fondness makes a pair an excellent option when it comes to buying presents.

Opt for this pair of shoes from Axel Arigato (double fashion points) and you’ve bought yourself a one-way ticket to gratitude city, population: you.

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Can’t afford a romantic spa break? Fear not. Recreate the relaxation of a luxurious and calming pampering session at home by firing up this specially formulated de-stressing candle from Neom Organics. It might not be quite as lavish, but it’s the best you’re going to do for under $20. Besides, who doesn’t like posh candles?

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Imagine you’re on a romantic stroll, holding hands, and overall being cuffed up and cute. However, she keeps pulling her hand away to put in her pockets so she can keep them warm. The solution? These wool gloves from Norse Projects. Made of goat leather, this sleek pair of gloves will keep her hands warm and tangled up in yours.

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Unfortunately, a lady always needs a bag (because fashion still refuses to give them pockets). But some days, a big, clunky tote bag or over-the-shoulder bag just won’t cut it. Cue the clutch!

This soft leather bag is stylish and family-made – created with traditional craftsmanship by a Portuguese family who has been in the business since the ’80s. Timeless and chic, this will be her grab-and-go bag, guaranteed. And when she doesn’t feel like carrying it by hand, there’s a removable strap to convert it to a crossbody.

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In the age of being cute and comfortable, Neutrale as a brand gets it. This Madrid-based label takes the Mediterranean aesthetic to a sustainable level, using organic dye and recycled equitably sourced materials. While this lilac hoodie may not be her Valentine’s Day outfit (or maybe it will?), she is sure to wear it for those romantic nights on the sofa watching the latest movies on Netflix.

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This Oliver Cabell Link and Compass Gold Set will have your special lady feeling quite naughty – we mean nautical. A gold necklace is surely a way to her heart, and she will gasp in sheer delight when you present it to her on your special date. A must-have accessory for the adventurous woman, indulge her wants and splurge on this one-of-a-kind necklace set.

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Now you may think she just throws some water on her face and calls it a day, and to that we say open your eyes! Most women love to have that special skincare routine to keep themselves looking youthful and also because it allows them 15 minutes a day to just pamper themselves.

This V-day, give your girl the gift of self-love with this Glowing Routine from Verso, full of vitamin-enriched retinol serum, cleanser, moisturizer and enzyme peel. While you might not totally understand the science behind it, she will be sure to love it.

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She loves to cook and eat delicious foods (don’t we all?), but doing dishes – or even just loading the dishwasher – causes a mild panic. Luckily, she has you to get her this cult-classic Always Pan from Our Place. Designed to replace 8 traditional pieces of cookware, the kitchen will be ablaze with sauteeing, braising, and more. And it’s non-stick!

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Being a woman is stressful. From doing the same job as a man for less money to making sure she looks amazing every minute of the day to walking around in heels, they need to be able to properly relax with a good massage. Everyone knows that Theragun is the way to go for massaging and this mini-version is perfect for your knotty (get it?) girl. Help her relax this Valentine’s Day.

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Nothing says spicing up one’s life quite like a truffle hot sauce set. If your leading lady can handle her heat, don’t be afraid to go off the beaten path and gift her with this. An even better idea?

Homemade wings or cauliflower poppers (or both!) and Netflix Valentine’s Day date. Not only can you give her this spicy get, but you both can put yourselves to the test. We suggest having First We Feast’s “Hot Ones” playing in the background. 

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With this battery-powered, app-controlled mug, her coffee or tea will never get cold — which is exactly what she needs as she jumps from Zoom meeting to Zoom meeting being the total boss that she is. A lukewarm cup of Joe will not cut it, and how can she demand equal pay if she isn’t adequately caffeinated? Not only does this help her, it helps all womankind.

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When it comes to relationships, most women love to keep little mementos of major milestones. By gifting her with this “As We Grow” memory book, not only are you indulging this urge, but you’re showing your commitment, which is the best Valentine’s Day gift for her a man could give. Go from boyfriend material to husband material with this simple gesture.

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For the ladies who love to tone, tuck, and everything in between, these wearable wrist and ankle weights are the perfect accessory to a great workout. Not only do they look cute, but they are only one pound, so she can use it during her otherwise weightless exercising with ease. Yoga, pilates, HIIT … you name it! If you’re a real one, you will buy a pair for yourself and join in on her gym sessions.

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Your girlfriend does a lot and deserves to be pampered by her beau (a.k.a you!). Sometimes her self-care involves taking hour-long baths full of lavender bubbles and bath bombs, and you should indulge her by elevating this experience. This bath caddy allows her to have a drink, eat some snacks, read a book, or binge-watch T.V. from the comfort of a calming bath. And who knows? Maybe she’ll let you join!

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This bag is taking over social media — and your girl is one of the lucky ones who gets it. Crafted from 100% premium vegan leather and recycled plastic, this Hollywood-it bag features a ruched look and a scrunchie-style strap with a magnetic closure.

It’s cute, sustainable, and helps keep the animals safe, all things we’re sure your girl cares about. It will also make her a hit on Instagram, which is very important for the women hankering to become influencers.

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This Valentine’s Day, don’t be afraid to get deep with the one you love. Show her how much you love her by gifting her (and yourself!) with this Intimacy Deck, a 150-card deck full of conversation starters to help deepen and strengthen your relationship while also establishing some very needed, genuine quality time. Not only will you use the most romantic day of the year to jumpstart this new chapter of your career, but you can refer back to it whenever you need.

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If your Valentine’s Day plans involve watching movies in your most comfy pajamas, snuggled up on the couch, then you need to gift that special lady with the perfect snack for the occasion. This V-day-inspired popcorn tin includes cheddar cheese, caramel, and kettle popcorn to satiate every craving. Munch away as you spend the night in each other’s arms.

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You may be wondering – UGGs really? And to that, we say enthusiastically yes! Not only are these not the Uggs from the early 2000s we love to hate, but they look seriously cool. Ranging in colors from hot pink to a subtle lilac, your girl will be comfy and stylish in every season.

These fur sandals are exactly the Valentine’s Day gift she didn’t think she needed but absolutely needs in her life. Be the prince charming of her story and gift her with these fur slippers!

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