Like many, my relationship with clothes has been somewhat fickle. I spent the majority of my twenties dipping in and out of various fads, from harem pants (yes, really) to oversized hoodies and skinny jeans. I even had a brief obsession with gym gear; I think I probably wore it everywhere but the bath.

But despite my obvious weakness for fleeting fashions, I somehow always end up back where I am right now: with the classics. The sort that never fall out of favor, and for good reason.

Embracing the Timeless

Now in my mid-thirties, I’m finally seeing the benefits of choosing fewer, but better, pieces. Like the ones Steve McQueen and Paul Newman would wear, or my grandfather. Unlike mine, their wardrobes weren’t cluttered with ephemeral trends, they were built on essentials: a quality jacket, Oxford shirt, cashmere sweater, and of course, a plain white tee.

And the best part? These pieces don’t just last, they get better with age.

That’s the thing I’ve come to love about great clothes. They don’t just hang in your wardrobe, they live with you. Take a pair of jeans, for example. There’s nothing quite like the stories a well-worn pair can tell. The soft creases behind the knees, the faint lines around the thighs, and the subtle imprint of a cardholder that once lived in the back pocket—all of it a map of your life etched into the fabric.

Or a simple white T-shirt that’s been through the wringer. Worn to muddy festivals, countless Monday morning meetings, and Christmases spent necking eggnog with the family. Gradually softening with each wash.

Clothes like that don’t just exist, they witness.

The more I think about it, the more I realize that the guys I admire, like McQueen and Newman, always looked effortlessly cool. Not because they were chasing trends, but because they let their clothes become part of them.

And as I spend hours looking at old photos to add to my Pinterest boards, I often get to thinking how I’d like to be remembered with the same kind of sartorial fondness. Here’s hoping.

Discovering Asket: A Brand That Gets It

This shift in my approach is why I really dig Asket. They get it.

Founded in 2015 in Stockholm, Sweden, the label was born from a desire to create the perfect essential wardrobe. A permanent, rolling collection that includes everyday pieces that you not only want, but actually need. Forget seasonal trends or hype-fuelled drops. It’s all about thoughtfully made clothing designed to stay relevant, year after year.

While most fashion brands are busy convincing you to buy into whatever’s “in” this season, Asket is doing the exact opposite by encouraging you to build a wardrobe with intention. There’s no pressure to keep up, no revolving door of collections, just a steady offering of timeless basics.

It’s refreshing, and it’s honest. Every product page breaks down exactly where your money goes, from labor to materials, so you can see the true cost of what you’re buying. On top of that, each order comes with a digital impact receipt that reveals the environmental and social footprint of your purchase. It’s a small but powerful reminder that clothing shouldn’t be disposable, and that our choices have consequences. And that mindset flows through everything they do.

This year marks the 10th anniversary of Asket’s signature white T-shirt, a staple that perfectly embodies its philosophy. Made from a dense organic, extra-long staple cotton jersey, it’s everything a T-shirt should be: simple, durable, and forever stylish. Free from logos and flashy designs.

And honestly, that’s what I appreciate most. In a world that constantly tries to convince you to buy more, they’re simply helping you own less. Less noise, less waste, less regret.

A Curated Wardrobe for a Conscious Life

There’s something incredibly satisfying about opening my wardrobe these days. Gone are the mornings spent rifling through racks of clothes, overwhelmed by the options. Instead, what’s left is a clean, curated collection of things I actually love. And more importantly, wear.

Having a pared-back wardrobe built around versatile, top-quality gear has freed up so much mental space. I no longer stand there second-guessing.

And it’s not just money that’s saved, there’s also a very real financial benefit.

Investing in quality over quantity means I’m not constantly replacing crap. Instead of blowing my money on fast-fashion hauls, I’m slowly building a wardrobe of pieces that I can always rely on. And in the long run, spending a bit more upfront ends up being far kinder to my wallet. Fewer impulse buys, fewer wasted purchases.

Not to mention the environmental impact. It’s hard to ignore how wasteful the fashion industry has become—mountains of discarded clothes, overflowing landfills, and an endless push for more. By doing things the Asket way, I’m reducing my personal contribution to that cycle. It feels good knowing that my closet isn’t built on fast, forgettable fashion, but on items that I intend to wear for as long as they’ll hold together.

Final Word

If there’s one thing I’ve learned through this whole evolution of mine—well, maybe two—it’s that style is simple, and clothes are meant to be enjoyed. Don’t overthink it. Staples will never let you down, and you should never be afraid to wear what you love.

Stop saving things for best. Wear the Merino wool sweatshirt on a random Tuesday and scuff those shoes on the subway. Clothes get better when they’re lived in, not when they’re left hiding away.

My advice is invest in quality, wear it often, and let it collect stories. Because at the end of the day, that’s what good style really is. Not perfect, not pristine, just yours.