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Embracing self-worth and implementing healthy boundaries is extremely important in relationships.

Are there repetitive warning signs that you deserve better in your partnership? Do you feel undervalued and neglected in your home environment? If your relationship has changed course over the last year, it is time to comprehend what changed. What transpired to cause such an emotional disconnect between you and your partner?

What are the signs that you deserve better in your relationship?

1. You both haven’t said “I love you” for months.
2. You are repetitively unappreciated! Your efforts and feelings go unnoticed.
3. Your partner is emotionally unavailable. This causes you to shut down your emotions toward them, becoming a mirror image of their behaviour.
4. The intimacy between you is limited or non-existent. The romance has left your relationship.
5. You seldom feel respected in your relationship. You’re starting to dread coming home and feel deflated in their presence.
6. Your communication is limited, and you don’t feel heard when conversing with them.
7. You constantly have to walk on eggshells around your partner’s moods and criticism.
8. Your relationship has become a lonely environment. You have no desire to socialize due to these changes taking place. You don’t feel like yourself, and it is taking a toll on your self-esteem.
9. You have tried compromising to fix things with your partner. They are not interested in repairing the problems or nurturing the love in your relationship. They have checked out.

A reciprocated effort from both sides is needed to maintain the longevity of a partnership.

It’s not one person’s job to fix what isn’t working. It’s called a partnership for a reason. A required effort from both sides is crucial to repair what is broken. If any of the 9 points mentioned above are happening in your home, change needs to happen quickly.

Counselling is always the best option in any ongoing problematic situation. If both you and your partner are willing to do the work, then there is always hope. You will be capable of salvaging the love you share when always pay close attention. The one big exception here is #9. If your partner has already checked out of your relationship, it may be too late to reconcile. Never let things slide in a negative direction for too long. These issues don’t go away on their own, they escalate over time.

You both signed up to be in this committed relationship.

It is both your responsibility to uphold and nurture your love together as a couple. You fell in love for a reason, don’t lose sight of that. There is no place for blatant complacency or toxic behaviour in a healthy partnership.

When you’re truly invested in your relationship, you both understand the importance of making a continued effort. There is a mutual comprehension of what is needed for a partnership to evolve naturally. Being present and communicative is the key to keeping things in a loving and harmonious place. There will inevitably be a few bumps along the way, which can’t always be avoided. Address these scenarios with understanding and take the time to resolve the issue. This will help you both move on quickly.

It’s worth the time and energy spent to keep things in alignment as a couple.

A relationship is not a lot of work if you are cognizant of any new changes taking place. Listening to each other’s concerns can help you both stay on track. When couples ignore the simple things that can be fixed, is when they become big things that are irreparable.

Don’t be the last to know your relationship is in trouble. 💔

Thank you, Sybersue xo ❤

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